God had a plan for me

Brother Joel C. Añasco, S.C. with some of the low-income children his community serves in the Philippines. (All photos courtesy of Brother Joel C. Añasco, S.C.)

I GREW UP in the Philippines, in a humble family in a small coastal city called Carmen, Davao del Norte. As a child, I was active in the Flores de Mayo celebrations—festivities involving rosaries, devotions to Mary, flower-filled processions, and more—all of which sparked a strong connection to my faith. Little did I know, those joyful days of devotion were planting seeds that would later bloom into a calling to religious life.

Slow unfolding

“God waits. I wait.” These words have stayed with me through the years, especially during moments of uncertainty.

Coming from a poor family, I realized early on that college might not be an option for me. During high school, while my classmates eagerly planned their futures and chose the schools they wanted to attend, I silently wrestled with the harsh reality that higher education was beyond my family’s reach. I felt a deep sadness, but I held onto the belief that God had a plan for me, even if I couldn’t yet see it.

After graduating high school, I worked as a salesclerk in a mall for two years, earning just $3.40 a day. It wasn’t enough to save for college, but I kept pushing forward. Then, through my connections in the church, an opportunity arose that would change my life: I became a working college student with help from the Sisters of Charity of St. Charles Borromeo.

Living and working with the sisters exposed me to the beauty and challenges of religious life. However, being a working student was far from easy. I had to balance my responsibilities with my studies, often surviving on just four or five hours of sleep. Each morning, I woke up at 3 or 4 a.m. to go to the market. After returning, I continued working until my classes in the afternoon, which lasted until the evening.

Despite the hardships, faith and determination carried me through, and I proudly graduated with a bachelor’s degree in elementary education. To me this milestone was more than just an academic achievement—it was a testament to God’s grace and the power of perseverance.

One of the most transformative moments of my life came when one of the Sisters of Charity of St. Charles Borromeo introduced me to the Brothers of the Sacred Heart. From the very first meeting, I was drawn to their joyful, animated demeanor. They always smiled, and their sense of community radiated warmth and acceptance. They provided me with encouragement and direction that helped me discern my calling.

When I decided to enter, my heart was prepared. I said, “Oh God, I’m ready.”

All things work together for good

Since one of the ministries of the brothers is education, my background as a teacher aligned perfectly with their mission. With their support, I eventually earned a master’s degree in theology with an emphasis on religious education.

One of their most impactful programs is Project M.O.S.E.S., which stands for Mobile Operations of Street-Children Education and Services. This initiative brings education and services to impoverished children, even in the most challenging environments.

I vividly remember, as part of Project M.O.S.E.S., visiting a cemetery where families eked out a living. Their children worked tirelessly, gathering melted candles from gravesites to sell for a few pesos. Seeing their struggle reminded me of my own challenges growing up. I realized that God had allowed me to experience poverty so I could empathize with and serve others in similar situations.

One of the greatest blessings in my journey was becoming the first brother in the Philippine Delegation to have a novitiate (preparation) experience in the United States. It was an incredible privilege that rested on the trust and support of the community. I took my first vows in 2020 at St. Charles Borromeo Parish in Woonsocket, Rhode Island—a moment of profound joy and commitment.

During my novitiate years, the Sacred Heart community helped mold and shape me to live as a consecrated brother. I owe a special debt of gratitude to Brothers Donald, Xavier, and Irenee. Though Brother Donald has since passed away, his teachings remain alive in my heart. These remarkable men guided me, inspired me, and transformed me with their faith and wisdom.

Their hopes and unwavering support gave me strength and purpose. Because of them, I felt a glow within me—a light of hope and inspiration shining through every aspect of my life. I am forever grateful for everything they did for me during my formation.

Looking back, my journey has been one of faith, resilience, and purpose. From the little boy walking through the streets in the Flores de Mayo processions to the working student struggling to stay awake at night, and now, as a consecrated brother and educator, I see God’s hand in every step.

Life hasn’t always been easy, but it has been rich in meaning. My heart is full of gratitude—for the challenges that shaped me, the people who guided me, and the faith that continues to sustain me.

Indeed, God waits. And I wait—not in hesitation, but in hope, ready to embrace the life God has called me to live.

Related: VocationNetwork.org, “Brotherhood is right for me."